On Using Old School Methods for reaching New Year’s Resolutions

digital_resolutions-100019466-largeWhat will be new for you this New Years? New Years Day is the day and week where many begin their chosen New Year’s resolutions for the year. I, like many others, have outlined my resolutions in terms of the goals I hope to achieve this coming year. Irregardless of the form that one’s resolutions may take, each one of us knows in our hearts that the “boot camp” starts this week!!! For this secular equivalent of our Catholic Lent to be successful, we must some how tap into and use those tried and true “old school methods” if we are really gonna, by God’s grace, reach the goals we have set for ourselves this New Year.

 

 

One old school method useful for creating the new you in 2016 is the practice of planning how we are going to meet these goals. Now that you have identified your goals, take this week to research and plan how you will achieve them this year; a week of good planning can help one avoid the potholes and mistakes the other fifty-one week of this year. Planning will break your goals into bite-size chunks that can easily be integrated into and worked on each day. With planning, the vision and hope of our goals becomes piecemeal; our vision is shifted and we can begin to focus on the daily tasks at hand, worrying less about our list goals. Common examples include planning how to save $50 a week on food by couponing, catching sales, shopping multiple store, planning meals for the week, making bag lunches, etc.. The concrete work of implementing the nuts and bolts of our plan creates a new perspective, experience and vision in our lives that somehow and in a sneaky kind of way, replaces what was once there.

 

 

Another old school method applicable for reaching our 2016 New Year’s resolutions is that of making and accepting some willful sacrifice in order to make these dreams a reality. Any intrinsically good and graced goal that we have ever dreamt of, from family and career to our financial goals, has only been achieved when we have willfully crossed that the bridge of sacrifice. Making “the sacrifices” does not guarantee us success; there are many who have made the “worthy sacrifice” but have fallen short… Yet, even most of these will still agree that to hope for true love, a viable career or a loving family – without making and accepting the sacrifices these realities calls for, is simply to truly dream and guarantee its deferment! By taking a week to plan how you will attack your resolutions for this year, you will find that it will clearly identify and uncover exactly what you will have to sacrifice in order to reach your goals for this year. Knowing, having and living with an, “ its time to suck it up and tighten my belt” attitude is necessary if our 2017 goals are going to be different than this year’s.

 

 

A final old school tool useful for creating the new you and reaching your 2016 goals is that of constantly praying over and for your 2016 resolutions. Even though we know that prayer is the most fundamental of all the spiritual exercises, how often do we employ it as a long-term method for reaching our New Year’s resolutions?   If the power of prayer can change the world, what can it do for our resolutions? Over the years, I have found that by consistently praying over my New Year’s resolutions, miracles can happen… By prayer, my selfish, misguided and outright bad resolutions have been identified, changed and/or adjusted in the light of grace… By prayer, many selfish motivations that I have had for good New Year’s resolutions were eventually identified, purified and transformed by God’s grace… In my morning prayer over the years, I have had to both remember and humbly share/bare my failed/ignored/tough New Year’s resolutions to God, Who graciously renewed my faith in, strengthened and restored my fractured hope in and deepened my love in this yearly practice as a Strugglin’Catholic who is prayerfully seeking daily growth in holiness. Yes, prayer can and does make not only a difference, but often it is the difference!

 

 

As we begin 2016 this week, let’s first thank and praise God for the gift of seeing another New Year! As we, in gratitude for this gift, make our final considerations for New Year’s resolutions this week, the Strugglin’Catholic prays that by God’s grace, your resolutions are in accordance with God’s will. Please pray with us, that the Holy Spirit will guide each of us in the choosing, planning, sacrificing for and praying about our specific New Year’s resolutions for this year.